FAMILY FIRST By TONYA KERR

Special to the Pflag

I was thrilled the other day when I overheard my kids’ answers to a relative’s question, “So, what do you want to be when you grow up?” All three of my children gave respectable responses like doctor, teacher and veterinarian.

Later, during the long drive home with iPods in their ears, I asked them to take a break and talk about their future career goals. I was disappointed when all three agreed that their first goal is to become famous. Later, they’ll concentrate on a career.

I tried to explain that the notion of being famous is not a career, it’s a side effect of a job well-done. My oldest rebutted by saying, “Not these days mom.” And she gave me a long list of reality television stars who have done little to earn their fame and fortune.

When you think about it, why would our kids want to aspire to be low-paid teachers or struggling medical students? Why wouldn’t they rather be rich and famous?

According to a recent study of 1,032 teenagers in the U.K., it was revealed that 54 percent wanted to be famous when they’re older, and most were unsure how to achieve their goal. And, only 19 percent of those who craved fame felt they had any talent.

Another study of 3,000 kids in the U.K. showed that 12 percent wanted to be sports stars, 11 percent wanted to be pop stars and 11 percent wanted to be actors. (By the way, 25 years ago, the top career choices for kids were teacher, finance and medicine. Interestingly, finance didn’t even make the list of these recent studies).

When I really think about it, I don’t doubt that I had similar aspirations when I was my children’s age. Today, I still love the glamour and the make-believe world of Hollywood. I grew up auditioning for every school play and local opportunity available. My parents encouraged me to try anything, which I enjoyed with the provision that I always put my studies first.

That’s what I did. I worked hard in school, graduated college, and experienced amazing opportunities in a variety of careers. I’ve never been afraid to look for work in the entertainment world – not because I want to be famous, but because some of the jobs can be tons of fun!

So, when my oldest daughters heard that Disney was coming to Austin this weekend for a nationwide talent search, they begged to go. I didn’t hesitate to say yes. I’m convinced that the auditioning experience will be an eye-opener. They’ll experience the long lines, meet the impersonal casting directors, and realize the composure it takes to put your best foot forward on cue.

The open casting call for Disney Channel and Disney XD is for boys and girls (ages 10-18) with acting, singing and dancing abilities to be considered for upcoming original movies and series. It’s Saturday, March 27, from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. at the Omni Austin Hotel Downtown (700 San Jacinto at 8th St., Austin).

Each applicant will be provided a monologue to perform. All applicants must complete an application and must be accompanied by a parent or legal guardian.

Here are a few tips: Every child will be seen. Big personalities are key. Script reading only, but interesting candidates have been asked in the past to break out into song or dance.

The Omni only has holding rooms for about 400 kids and their guardians – so expect long waits in long lines. Parking at the Omni’s P1 garage will cost $10; valet is $25; and metered parking will catch the overflow.

For me, there are no illusions about being a mom to the next Hannah Montana. My girls are more curious than confident in their talents, and I’m anxious to discuss their perspective after the audition. Is there a chance for hurt feelings or false hope? Sure. But it’s also an exciting experience which I hope they’ll draw on for future endeavors and life-changing decisions.

Please let me know if you have any ideas for this Family First column. I’d love to hear from you!

Tonya Kerr lives in Round Rock with her husband and three daughters. She’s a former television news anchor, congressional press secretary, and public relations executive. Contact her at tonya-kerr@hotmail.com